the best kept secret. Why, i ask myself why,why didn't our mothers tell us or our sisters or our friends even maybe our aunts.Why didn't they tell us that Sex,yeah i said SEX.Why didn't they tell us that sex is not all it is cracked up to be.That it is over rated.That it has been blown out of propotion.Even exaggerated.Lied on.Yeah all the above and even more.The romance novels make it seem as if Sex is so great,so intoxicating,so special,so heavenly.Have young women,young virgins dying to find out about this thing called sex.Anxiously dying to experience it.Only to find out that it is at times a workout, a job, a pain in the neck or should i say a pain in the &$!#*^$#........ in anycase we know where we feel the pain.That sometimes you are there whishing he would just get the hell off of you.Some of us don't only whish it.We actually voice our opinions.like "hurry up,"or "Auwwwwwwww" or "what are you doing" or "stop licking me." or when they ask "how is it for you baby, we say,"hurry and come, so you can get off of me." He, i am not saying that it is not great at times, no, what i am saying is that sometimes it is messy and dirty and painfull and that you are sometimes just not n the bloody mood and that these men just don't seem to get it or they just don't give a damn.Yeah that's it they don't give a damn about how much you are burning.Some of them are vain enough to think that you are burning because they have a big penis.But i say, all you women out there stop faking it and just let these men know when the sex is just BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAD.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

he sisters,yesterday i got two beautifull roses from my hubby.I guess he was in a good mood.I was trying to remember the last time i got flowers from him and that was like six months ago.Personaly i don't care for flowers because i am not really a romantic person.but my sisters reminded me to be gratefull and told me that other women aren't as lucky.So i desided to take there advise and stop showing off.But still i prefer the money then i can do with it what ever i like.,My sister and I

 

My other sister

I spoke of my sister as if i only have one.The fact is i have two sisters.One is older than i am and one is younger than me.She is a beautifull dark skin slim and elegant looking young lady."wang true sranang oema," and i love her,just because she is my sister.She is an inteligent no nonsense young woman.I personally wouldn't mess with her.Because doing so,is at once own risk.She is not afraid to tell you like it is.She told me of this interview she went on a couple of months back.The woman who was interviewing her made the mistake of saying the wrong thing and ofcourse my sister didn't keep quiet.She let the woman know that she wasn't going to let anyone disrespect her and that she didn't need her job.Because she believes that whatever is destined to be yours in this life then you will achieve it regardless of whatever roadblocks anyone puts up.God willing she is getting married soon.I pray for all the best for her and she gets the wisdom knowledge and understanding in dealing with marriage life.

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This is the way i love. Love truly means never having to say you are sorry.Is it unreachable to want to be love like that.The way i see it is that I will love only for the pleasure of God.If loving a person is goign to please god.Then i will love that person.If a person is a good person,Godfearing and who allways try to do right by god then i would love that person.That to me means that if my husband is loving to me and he is patient to and he is kind to and he respects me because he knows it will please god,and it will bring him closer to god then that is a man i will love.That is a man i would willingly love and treat him as well as he loves me or better.But i can't ever love a man who doesn't repects me,who is unkind to me and impatient.NO,i can't love a man like that because even god would love a man like that.I only love the person whom god loves.And when god loves a person you can see it on that person.And besides none of us truly believes in god untill we love for others what we love for ourselves.

He,do you have a sister? If so then you will know what i am talking about.Having a sister is the most beautifull thing in the world.Well maybe not in your world but in mine it is.My sister is my best friend,my personal chearleader,my adviser and my critic,she just tells me like it is.If my mouth stinks she would tell me just that and that is to me what a friend should be.My sister and i get along great.She lives in Europe and i am in the Bahamas but even though we are miles and miles apart it feels as if we are just around the corner from each other.We talk and see each other all most everyday thanks to yahoo and webcams.We share our adventures of the day with each other.Everything really, from the kithen to the bedroom.Our daily struggles of our live, our frustrations with the man in our life.We also share the fun part of our lives with each.If somebody get something new we get on the webcam to get the other one's opinion.Even the crazy things our kids do.Like today she was telling me about her son.His name is ammaar.Her friend came over to pickup her son that my sister babysits. the childs mother asked ammaar if he liked having the baby over and he told the women, no.He told her,her son is noisy and that he makes a lot of mess and everytime he leaves.he leaves his room in a mess. I thought that is what you get for asking ammaar his opinion.But don't think we don't fight because that is the best part of it.We argue about who love whom the most and who cares the most.But what i want to say is that my sister is the best.She is beautifull,loving and kind and she is a good mother to her kids.I pray that God blesses her with all the goodness this life has to offer and paradise in the next.