the best kept secret. Why, i ask myself why,why didn't our mothers tell us or our sisters or our friends even maybe our aunts.Why didn't they tell us that Sex,yeah i said SEX.Why didn't they tell us that sex is not all it is cracked up to be.That it is over rated.That it has been blown out of propotion.Even exaggerated.Lied on.Yeah all the above and even more.The romance novels make it seem as if Sex is so great,so intoxicating,so special,so heavenly.Have young women,young virgins dying to find out about this thing called sex.Anxiously dying to experience it.Only to find out that it is at times a workout, a job, a pain in the neck or should i say a pain in the &$!#*^$#........ in anycase we know where we feel the pain.That sometimes you are there whishing he would just get the hell off of you.Some of us don't only whish it.We actually voice our opinions.like "hurry up,"or "Auwwwwwwww" or "what are you doing" or "stop licking me." or when they ask "how is it for you baby, we say,"hurry and come, so you can get off of me." He, i am not saying that it is not great at times, no, what i am saying is that sometimes it is messy and dirty and painfull and that you are sometimes just not n the bloody mood and that these men just don't seem to get it or they just don't give a damn.Yeah that's it they don't give a damn about how much you are burning.Some of them are vain enough to think that you are burning because they have a big penis.But i say, all you women out there stop faking it and just let these men know when the sex is just BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAD.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!