This is the way i love. Love truly means never having to say you are sorry.Is it unreachable to want to be love like that.The way i see it is that I will love only for the pleasure of God.If loving a person is goign to please god.Then i will love that person.If a person is a good person,Godfearing and who allways try to do right by god then i would love that person.That to me means that if my husband is loving to me and he is patient to and he is kind to and he respects me because he knows it will please god,and it will bring him closer to god then that is a man i will love.That is a man i would willingly love and treat him as well as he loves me or better.But i can't ever love a man who doesn't repects me,who is unkind to me and impatient.NO,i can't love a man like that because even god would love a man like that.I only love the person whom god loves.And when god loves a person you can see it on that person.And besides none of us truly believes in god untill we love for others what we love for ourselves.