assalaamalaikum to all my friends and family,

how is everything, i not too long came back from Eur0pe. Just myself and my daughter. I got to visit all my aunts that were in Holland at the time and cousins. My aunt donnette and husband, my sister tahira and her husband and my aunt Ann did a great job hosting my daughter and I. My cousin Lisa and Lenox and Sergine did a good job too. The friends of my sister and my friend sauda and her husband were also great hostes. I am thankfull to everyone who made my stay inHolland a good one. I even got to catch up back with my old school friend Gracita from Suriname, she had us over for dinner and didn't even mind me bringing along my 2 friends. Shukran to sister Zeinab and her husband too and their cute little baby. We spent a pleasant even at her house and we enjoyed a wonderfull meal. I had a good time in Holland. I am planning to visit Europe more.

P.s here are some of our vacation pics.

Hello,
It's me again. How have you all been doing. I just realize that i haven't blogged on this address in a long, long, time. Matter of fact the last time I blogged here it was November of 2005. Anyhow I am back and what I really want to blog about is our sex life. Our, referring to us women. I would like to write a handbook on fore- play for our husbands. What I want to say to them might help them to be better husbands. And better husbands equal better wives and this leads to a happier husband which leads to happier wives and therefore happier homes. What men don't know is that fore- play doesn't start in the bed. It actually starts in the kitchen the bathroom, living room, dining room, actually anywhere but the bedroom. fore play starts in the kitchen by doing the ditches or cooking the dinner for a change. Don't sit down and watch TV while we are in the kitchen cooking, cleaning etc. Noooooooooooo, get up and come and ask what you can help out with. That alone will put a smile on our face. Or maybe start your foreplay by scrubbing out the tub and and the toilet bowl. Don't use the toilet and then leave your stuff in there for us to flush it for you and at least scrub the bowl after you flush. How about starting fore- play in the living room by vacuuming and straigthen up the cushions. If fore-play should start in all those other rooms by the time we get in the bedroom we could get right down to business. Because we will be sooooooooooooo turned on by then we wouldn't want to delay any longer. Trust me I know what I am talking about. Nothing makes me want to make love more, than when my husband takes part in keeping the home neat and clean and doesn't leave it all up to me.

hey guys,
how have you all been?How is life been treating you all?Hopefully not too bad. I myself am trying to take things one step at a time,day by day with the constant reminder of my purpose for being in this life. Anyhow what i really wanted to share is the fact that i am going on a vacation! that's right me and my daughter will be visiting with my parents and siblings. We only get to see each other in the summer or i should say thanks to the all mighty God, He makes it possible for us to be with each other in the summer. I pray that it is a good vacation and that my Lord brings us closer and give the good out of this visit and protect us from the bad. Ameeeen.
Anyhow guys take care and besure to enjoy whatever vacation you all are taking this summer too.

To my sisters and brothers,I am writing this blog for you and to you.

Hold on to the rope of Islam.
Do not die except in the state of Al-islam.
Obey Allah and his messenger.
Be mindfulll of your duty to Allah.
Know that what ever Allah has for you in this life is for you and no one can take it from you and that what is not meant for you then no one can give it you.
Know that after hardship comes ease and when you get ease still strive in the path of Allah.
Know that What ever happens to a believer is good for him/her.
Know that good is from Allah and that evil is due to her own nafs or desires.
Know that when you come walking Allah comes runninig.
Know that in surah fatiha there is a healing for every ailment.
Know that when you remember Allah,Allah will remember you.
Know that in Ayatull kursi there is protection from the shaitaan.
Know that Paradise is real and hell is real.
Know that the punishment in the grave is real.
Know that gratitude increases Allah's generosity.
Know that death is a certainity and live is only test.
Know that Allah is Allah,the God of Ibraham and Moses and the God of jesus the sun of mary
know that he Allah is one. He begetted not nor was he begotton.
Know that there is none like him.
Know that shaitaan is to you an open enemy.
Know that reminders are good for the believers, so let us keep reminding each other of our DUTY TO OUR MOST GRACIOUS MOST MERCIFULL LORD WHOM I LOVE VERY MUCH. I pray that he protect us from laziness, helplessness,cowardice and feeble old age, that he protect us from trials and afflictions of life and death and from the punishment in the grave. And for our parents that Allah bless them with janat fir daus and goodness in this life and goodness in the here-after and that he blesses them with health and strength and protect them from all evil sickness and deceases and long live. Because to us they were good parents and they give us the foundation of our iman.including the sacrifices they made to give us a comfortable live.May Allah reward them for this. ameen.

Women are not from venus and men are not from mars!!!!!!!!!! women and men are sooooooooooooooooo different but ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh soooooooooooooooo similar. I know for sure that we women and our men are from the same planet. The planet earth. Event's men like to think that they are different than women i found out through experience that that is not so.Men are just like women.At least in many ways they are. they gossip like women do. That is right ! you tell them something about a friend and ask them not to tell anyone. but before you know it , it is out on the streets. they are as petty as they accuse us women to be. They complain about stupid things that doesn't even matter. eg.their Car or bike or something dumb like that. They do discuss their women with their friends, they love to discuss their sex lives with they male friends. Men always like to think that they are superior to women but little do they know that their superiority only lies in the fact that God has given them the position to be the caregivers of women and therefore ask the women to respect them as the caregivers and providers for women. But that is where it ends. men and women have the same judgment facing and awaiting them both We all will die some day and we both will be ask concerning our deeds. That is the only way i know it. they aren't any different or special treatment for either one of us. Mather of fact the same punishment for adultery aplies to the man as well as the women. So to all the men out there who think that there are better badder or special than us women think again.

hey everybody, how is life been treating you guys.HOw is your loves been treating you lately.Aren't you tired of picking up after your husband.Well geuss what, i am. I am really tired of picking up after a big grown man. who keeps leaving his socks infront of the door or under the bed because he thinks he is going to wear them the next day.I am tired of moving his banana peel or cups or saucers from under the sofa after he gets up from watching tv. He says that it is not deliberately but i can help but wonder.................. . Why doesn't he pick up after himself. Does he think i am his personal maid or his Sex slave who also does the cleaning. I don't know. You maybe know why they behave the way they do. If you have the answer please do share it with me. I will be forever greatfull.

hey guys, guess what?! i am going to my sisters wedding.Yeah ! that is right my sister, my baby sister is getting married.Yep, she is going to be joining the rest of us married people. Well i wish all the best. I wish her a long and lasting marriage. I wish her a patient husband and she, a patient wife.I wish them strength to face all the trials and tribulation that life is made up of. I wish them good and healthy kids who are obedient smart loving and caring and who are pious and godfearing.I wish them a bueatifull home a spacious home and most of all i wish them to grow in their faith and become stronger and more pious. Yep, i wish her a loving husband a helpfull husband a respectfull husband. I wish her to be loving and helpfull and respectfull wife. Yes my dear, take care and beware of the devil shaitaan who is only out to ruin marriages. Mind you, he is very sneaky. He would sneak up on you and you will only recognize him when the damage is done.So my dear baby sister outsmart the devil and send him to hell everytime he tries to get between you and your man.